May have had two different careers in different times.
Stick to the person and not the careers.
A thought worth pondering:
Imagine, if that person (whom you like) started looking at the “same way you look” and considered “your intelligence, career, bank balance etc.”, would he still be with you?
For those who don’t know “Malay language”, the caption in the picture (of a mother and her daughter) reads,
“What? NOT a musician! Petroleum Engineer?”