Know Before the choice: Change of Mind
Marriage: Your mind will change
A choice in ‘thinking’
Unmarried men: Your thoughts mostly on the Lord’s things.
“I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 7:32)
Married men: Your thoughts mostly on your wife’s affairs (world)
“But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife—” (1 Corinthians 7:33)
The situation is ‘same’ for women too:
“and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:34)