(regarding marry versus don’t marry – choice)
Those who “marry” will have “trouble” in the “flesh”. The verse below assures this in “truth”:
1 Corinthians 7:28
New International Version
But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
Weymouth New Testament
Yet if you marry, you have not sinned; and if a maiden marries, she has not sinned. Such people, however, will have outward trouble. But I am for sparing you.
World English Bible
But if you marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you.
Young’s Literal Translation
But and if thou mayest marry, thou didst not sin; and if the virgin may marry, she did not sin; and such shall have tribulation in the flesh: and I spare
Wisdom is also knowing the consequences of our “choices”, beforehand with knowledge of the Word (truth).