The Love Failure?

To love our own is basic and not a pinnacle as often erred (family, friends, race, creeds, religious group, denomination etc.).

But to remain as such is really far from two of Christ the Lord’s Way in His Love namely:

(i) “…Love your enemies…” (Matthew 5:44)

(ii) “For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have?…” (Matthew 5:46)

P/S:

In view of this, a suitable practical question would be:

“Have our enemies, strangers or even those who don’t love us obtained an act of Love from us at some point in our lives?”