(aimed at those young adults looking to settle down)
If a man loves a woman but a woman does “not” reciprocate it back, it doesn’t mean that she’s bad; it just means that she’s “not” the one for you.
This type of love is a “two way street”. You must only marry the one who loves you back (if not, don’t marry —> never settle for ‘anything else’ since you’ll never be satisfied with him/her and your life may turn into a ‘charade’ instead).
If you insist on ‘marrying anything’ without proper ‘discernment’, this might happen:
“By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.” – Socrates
“Not life but good life is to be chiefly valued” – Socrates
A person is “only bad” when he/she transgresses God’s Commands, not ours.