To determine whether to marry a person eventually or not, only two questions matter:
(1) “is It God’s Will for me to marry?”
[Peter married & brought his spouse along for ministry. Paul did not marry. Both were apostles of the Lord]
(2) “If yes, is the person you are intending to marry is God’s Will for you?”
Each man & woman must answer these two questions before they decide to marry or not.
People have commonly asked me “how to determine God’s Will for those questions above?”
A reply: “Each individual must have a relationship with the Lord first & pray and seek The Lord for the answers”
An Indicator: “A sense of Peace may be felt toward the right decision eventually, given enough time in prayer, thought & contemplation in the Lord before deciding on it”.
How about me?
“I’m not sure yet”